It seems that lately adoptees have have been segregating themselves into cliques on many media sites. Cliques that are broken down to: happy adoptees, angry adoptees, searching adoptees, hurt adoptees, race/ethnicity adoptees, generational adoptees, and many more labels. What was once a place where adoptees could gather and discuss, has now turned into a place where adoptees clique up and jump on bandwagons to create a strong voice that breaks down the minority of an argument creating ill feelings. What we are forgetting is that adoption affects everyone differently. We all have separate journeys we have had to travel. No two adoptions are the same. Be mindful when you speak for that battle is still weak. Build one another up despite your perception of adoption. The war should be on the laws not against each other.