Rule #1: Never abandon, break up, or reject an adoptee with no explanation (ex. relationships, friendships, love)
Rule# 2 Never tell an adoptee "You should be thankful...". You have no idea what some adoptees have experienced
Rule #3 Never tell an adoptee "At least you weren't aborted...you had a chance to live"
Rule #4 Never think just because a child was adopted that they had a better life.
Rule #5 Never tell an adoptee how they should feel about being adopted. Everyone has a unique journey.
Have any more rules to add? Please post in the comment area. I would love to read and share them.